Women favour missionary for many reasons – some good (it's primitive and there's lots of eye contact), some not so good (it's the position that hides most of your body and requires the least effort from us). If he says he finds your body beautiful, he does. Women are way, way, way more critical about their bodies than their partners are of them. Yes, we all have our insecurities and 'fat days' but if you're a few months in and he still hasn't actually seen you naked, you're taking things way too far.īody insecurities don't just impact on his visual enjoyment, they often mean you won't try certain positions and are generally unadventurous in bed. Covering, up, only doing it with the lights off, not letting him look and admire you – none of these behaviours will score you any points at all with any man (or woman if you're gay or bisexual!)